是敌是友？好难分啊！

有时候真的不懂得怎么分清楚谁是你的朋友谁是你的敌人。或许敌人这词用得太重了吧，嗯，应该是说对自己不利的人，对自己有不良企图的人。
我正在怀疑是我自己放不下心去相信别人，还是真的没有人可以给我放心的去相信？
她是真心跟我做朋友的吗？还是另有他意？我真摸不清啊。有时候我的心告诉我她是个好人，难得一见的好人。有时候呢，心里却又悄悄地告诉我，这人要小心提防，也许她正在做一场好戏吊我上钩。好矛盾啊！
我真的认为她是我的好朋友。我只是害怕她把我当成猎物看待。
这世界有我这种人真是个错误。像我这种常常怀疑别人对我不怀好意的人，真的不值得拥有好朋友。怀疑心太重的我，是应该改过吗？是应该开始全心全意地去相信别人吗？我还是感到混淆。等我再长大一点吧。也许到那时候我可以开始冒险去相信他人，而不用连累家人了。好，那我就等着看了！

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Anonymous said…
tt's human nature....如果是人就会彼此利用。 有时你是被利用，有时是你利用别人。有时是故意的，有时是在不知不觉当中。。
9:12 AM
px:) said…
hmmm..我觉得呢，有时候交朋友不需要担心他是不是在利用自己，因为如果这样想的话，你会觉得交朋友是一件不好的事，而且会很累，因为会常常疑神疑鬼。。可能有些人会觉得我很不现实，但我觉得，只要自己交友时真心地对待别人就可以了，不需要管太多。。因为如果真的要管的话，那我们会很忙哦。。哈哈。。如果你对人家好，他却怀疑你是有目的的，那就由他去想吧。。只要自己问心无愧就好：）别担心太多哦，会更快变老的哦。。快乐就好：）祝福你：）

告诉你一个冷笑话：
一粒糖口渴了，便去喝牛奶，结果变牛奶糖
=-=‘’‘

对了，恶作剧之吻有第二部呢，你知道吗？？
take care:)
8:01 AM
Kah Hwee said…
oops 宝煊~ 我也是最近才听到这个冷笑话的~！是在一首歌里边儿的吧？

我本身的看法是呢，相信他人，但一定还有某程度的提防心。

至于利不利用，若他人对我的利用完全不对我造成影响的话，就由他去吧~ 若对我不利，那要提防。

but it's always easier said than done... haiz...
10:44 AM
*siLLy piGGY* said…
这是没有绝对的答案的..
只能告诉你..
感情就是这样的..不论朋友还是情侣..
一开始认识或者一起..
不要把全数的感情和信任都放下去..
如果把全数都一下子放下去,
就如你去赌场把你全部的筹码都放下去赌似地高风险... >.<
试着用些时间去了解某人..
但是有时也不能避免到...如果你遇到那些超级阴险的人啦! 哈哈!

Take care o!
2:50 AM
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